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Anal Sex, Pain and Lubricants

† Anal sex could hurt if certain procedures arenít followed. In that, the use of lubesí, previous relaxation, and avoidance of penetration without consent, no matter how strong one feels about it. Aside from those who praise anal sex, due mostly to pain-related pleasure induced, namely masochists, whom shall not be quoted moreover.
†Lubes- itís strictly necessary for the anal surroundings so penis of both to be well lubricated so that discomfort in anal sex can be kept at bay. Specific lubricants meant for it can be purchased in drugstores, big supermarket chains and sex-shops. No oil-based lubricant is to be used up, as it tends to increase the likelihood of sexual infections yet the condom to break up. Not to mention that certain people lubricate both the penis and anus with saliva whose isnít enough to ensure penetration.
†Anal relaxing techniques for a less stressful sex time, itís cornerstone that prior penetration, there would be anal pressure released. It too could be employed as foreplay, by inserting a finger then two and more in the anus as if probing ever so slowly its vicinity in massaging fashionwise. There exist in sex shops devices designed with that in mind. Therefore, the one clinching tight can let go on the grip while making room physically speaking to a more relaxed penis insertion.†
Nonconsensual penetration- thereís always someone unaware being penetrated, even in consensual sexual intercourse, never mind rape. With no avail from the one being penetrated, the shock felt would trigger muscular twitching plus ensue distress. Not having consent from partner renders lube smearing a lot harder, which could well promote further pain. Yet, likewise, cracking would take place in there, which could lead into bleeding.
†When tensed up upon anal sex- this one maybe the biggest cause for distress during this one sexual practice in particular. When the penetrated recipient happens to be too tensed up, despite having both partners taken precaution by properly waxing themselves up aside from feeling at ease, the whole muscularity would end up strained what causes difficulty in penetration. And the further the one who does the penetration shovels it in, the tighter the muscles would flex and so would the pain have grown unbearably, which could lead into ultimate failure.† Tension as such could stem from uncertainty regarding personal input onto anal sex or by sheer bias with regard to such practice and yet, from affective insecurity concerning the partner.
†These would be the main causes for pain as far as anal sex goes. Itís, indeed, such a painful area, once the anus isnít ergonomically shaped up for lodging a penis in. Painless anal sex can be made possible however, just takes being careful though.
†Moreover, given time, anal sex will become less painful also lodging things in would be rendered a lot easier.


Anne Griza
Sexologist


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